Thursday, April 26, 2007

Talk About It


Do you communicate well?

If your spouse, partner or lover wasn't touching you in the right place would you tell him or her?

Would you tell your spouse, partner or lover what turns you on?
I've heard people say, if their partners don't get it right sexually, they'll find someone who can. That won't help the relationship. That person may not be able to please you either. Does communication really work doing sexually playtime?

I am a talker. I will tell you what I need. But if you are like me and you tell a person what they need to do to turn you on and they still did nothing, what would you do?

8 comments:

The Brown Blogger said...

I am a little too vocal, if there is a thing. Probably hurts me more than it helps.

Luke Cage said...

I'm a very vocal gent, so please "beleev" that she will hear it from me. Can't be married and do the things we do without some form of communication when one of us isn't doing it right. You've got to speak out. Both parties. As to your question, compromise. If telling doesn't work, oh well there's probably something else that she or I could do better :)

Dancewithme2 said...

:::Sigh::: I had this problem with my ex. I would try everyway imaginable to try and communicate my feelings. I didn't want to offend or degrade - I just wanted a change. Some people just can't be receptive. I would often begin by saying - "is there anything that you would like me to do more/less of - something that I'm missing?" NOTHING. So, now I have someone who can feel comfortable enough with me to communicate about everything - the good, the bad and the ugly. Funny thing - a man who can communicate like that is often very insightful/attentive and little needs to be FIXED/CHANGED.
COmmunication , however, is KEY. Without it - you're like strangers no matter how long you've been together.

Rosemarie said...

My husband and I have no problem communicating in the bedroom. It's outside the bedroom that we have difficulty. Good lovin' holds it together!

TTD said...

that's a touchy topic.. i mean, if u really want to make things work w/ that person, and they werent doing it for u sexually.. u need to express ur concerns & wants.. luckily i dont have that problem ;-)

chele said...

if talking doesn't help, perhaps you can show him.

TDJ said...

Communication is key. If it ain't working, we gotta fix it. Now, some things can't be fixed or taught, but we've gotta try.

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