Tuesday, October 24, 2006
Sipping my coffee and saying, "That's Stupid."
It's been in the papers and on the news about this dancer, Sara Evans starring on Dancing with the Stars and her personal marital problems with her husband and their nanny. Why is it that women hire young beautiful nannies to keep their children and home? Too many times the husband ends up having sex with the nanny and the marriage is over. If I needed a nanny I would hire a sweet little old granny type. Why put your husband in the position of being near a woman who is the caretaker of the family? This nanny is cooking, taking care of your children, some pay bills, clean, etc. I have heard men say, "If the nanny is doing everything, why do I need a wife?" Plus if the man is wealthy, who is to say the beautiful, young lady is not flirting with the husband? My concern is this. The flesh is weak and so are humans, so why put that kind of temptation in the face of the husband or wife. I've heard this happens too many times, remember Robin Williams, and the man (John) who left his wife for Bo Derek and so many others who this happened too.
Another thing! Why are some women in denial about their spouses’ sexual preference when the signs are so clear? A young lady said, she opened up her husbands' computer and she found nothing but sites for homosexuality. Apparently he had even downloaded a naked man as his screen saver. She stated in front of several of us to her friends that she feared her husband was gay and not being upfront. I overheard her friends tell her to leave because he is gay, they could tell. The wife said, "I don't think he is gay, I think he is just freaky." Geez! Are there more women who have seen signs about down low men and ignored them?