Why is it so difficult to get a person to see that they drink too much? I try so hard to get this person to understand that they are doing much harm to their organs, etc. Plus they are just not likable when intoxicated. Should I videotape this person so they can see how they act? It is a relative. I don't want to hurt them, but it is quite embarrassing. They are simply too old to destroy their bodies and self respect.