Thursday, July 28, 2005

1,2, 3, breathe, relax and relate. That's how I felt today. I had to breathe and relax today before I exhaled as Ms. Terry McMillan would say and hurt somebody. I am juggling many projects and wondering how in the heck I am handling them all. I am writing a curriculum for a company in Milwaukee on violent crime as well as completing reports and working on two novels. I know I am taking on too much but I can't seem to stop. See when I stop my body goes into a sleep mode. Let me explain. As long as I am working I do not get tired but once I stop to relax, I fall asleep. We went to Arkansas, Pine Bluff to visit my husband's family. The whole trip I was so relaxed that I slept it away. Everytime I was too still I felt my daughter shaking me awake. I know I need rest but heck, you can't make progress or money asleep right. That brings me to a question that was posed to me today......and the winner is.........what do you think about the Terry McMillan saga? Well it's like this.....that brother was straight up wrong...he is an ultimate....as my mother would say-a dirt dobbler. That's low...right...See I see things like this when women fall in love they fall hard...true there could have been signs that he was gay, but when you are in love you will overlook those small things. This guy was deceitful...unable to be truthful to himself so how could he be real with Terry. We don't know the facts..but I saw an interview with her on the Today's Show with Katie and she was so hurt and angry..I would be too. IF he is indeed gay think of the diseases he could have given her, Aids, HIV, other communicable diseases. He couldn't love her to put her possibly at death door. Do I think she deserves this for dating a young guy...Hell No! If this thing was turned around men would be giving each other much dap...Would I date a young man?...I don't think so...but someone maybe 10-12 years younger maybe...15 to 20 years younger....no....too many decades between that. Not enough knowledge...I need a man who understands women, their bodies and how to make love to a women's mind, not her body....What would I do if I saw Terry?...I wouldn't say anything-just ask for a hug. Should a man who is twenty know if he is gay or not?...trust me-they know. They are being selfish and untrue to themselves..Today's lesson is investigate all new relationships with men...if you have to pay an investigator $400.00 to check out someone, it is worth the money to save your life....Terry is one of my favorite authors and as a sister it is an important that we support each other. Until we support each other-many of us women will continue to hurt..and some of these men will continue to dog us out...Yeah! That's my story and I am sticking to it...

9 comments:

AKA said...

You should look at time alone to be just as important as sleep is soothing the spirit and replenishing the body. I feel bad for Terri and all the other women that are dealing with the same issues. She has a right to bitter, I know I would want to hurt someone too! She should take a quote Tina Turner made "It was the Fourth of July, that holiday, meant so much, she left Ike. Now a days a great man is difficult to find. Women get so caught up with what a man isn't they should look at what he is, that is what count.

Rose said...

AkA you are so right. I'll take your advice ont he sleep info...

Deb S. said...

Rose, LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY to AKA about taking some time to be alone. Some people don't handle unstructured time very well. At times, I am one of them. It's during those times my teenage daughter will tell me: "Mom, step away from the computer...now."

Rose said...

I am going to see if I can plan me a small trip where I can lay around, get massages, and pedicures and feel good so that I can rest. I think it is time. Today I almost screamed at a worker. I had to count, breathe in and breathe out. I'll take the advice before it takes me.

gramyactress@21 said...

I really thought that was awful. He ain't S*** for the lies he told and the games he played. I know that some women loves a younger man becuase of the whole phyiscal thing. I would never -and I'm only tweny one-mess with a younger man. I haven't known a woman to mess with a younger man. I love conversing, music, and history. So how can a BOY that's 'fresh out tha cat' tell me anything about any of these topics when he wasn't reading when these things took place. I say no woman deserves her heart broken but you must realize God gives us lessons so we can learn from them. She knows right now but she must she down look to God so he can lift her up.

Rose said...

gramyactress@21
You are so funny. Did you say that he is fresh out the cat? Now that's funny. (LOL)You are deep!

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