Showing posts with label molested. Show all posts
Showing posts with label molested. Show all posts

Thursday, December 03, 2009

A Murderer in the Family

A man named Jamar Pinkney from Detroit was charged with CAPITAL murder for killing his own son.

His son, Jamar's 15 year old (Jamar Jr) confessed to his mother that he was molesting his 3 year old half sister (his father's daughter with another woman). Jr's mother immediately called up Jamar Sr and told him what his teenage son was doing. The father became outraged.

The aunt stated, “He beat my nephew real bad in the head, where he had knots like he had been in a boxing ring ... [When Cherry tried to intervene, the father pulled out a gun.]"

“I ran down the street to get police down here and I heard a gunshot,"

The elder Jamar apparently beat up his son. Then took him out into a field behind the house and shot him.

Wow this story is super sad. I don't see how a man can kill his son. He needed help and it seems to me he was asking for it, when he told his mom what he was doing. I understand how angry you can get because someone has hurt your child but to kill another one. That is too much for the heart to take. I wonder when the father came to his senses how he felt. Was there remorse?

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Dear Santa: Please Stop


Accused of molesting a 9 & 10 year old in Texas. Victim wrote letter to Santa as a school project and asked for help!

I always tell people to watch who they bring around their children. Girls and boys are always in danger if parents don't pay attention to their emotions and feelings. Look at their faces, read their feelings and keep the communication lines open.

As a person who has worked in the social service industry for twenty years, I can not begin to tell you how many people have reported some type of abuse from a family member, parent's boyfriend, relative, neighbor, or teacher. So many folks have been destroyed from being touched inappropriate. Some people can't handle this and end of having all sorts of emotional and mental illness. Yet people still entrust their kids with people they think might be trustworthy. Not me!

From one who has counseled, cried with, supported and referred bruised hearts and souls for intervention, I never left my child with anybody except my sister or husband. That was only after threatening them with life in prison if they allowed anybody to touch or harm my child. I'm still surprised my sister even kept my child.

To keep my daughters innocence I started teaching her about her body when she was two. Yes I did. I told her it was her body and if someone touched her in a bad way to tell me. I showed her what a bad way was too. I also did this with nieces and nephews. Boys are not excluded! Why? Because I know at least 30 people closely who were molested both male and female. So when I find out that a child has found a way to let somebody know...all I can say is hallelujah.

It was amazing what this girl did when she wrote a letter to Santa to rat out this predator. In the meantime, watch the little kids around you. Protect them. They have enough problems then to walk around being abused and used by a sick minded person. Save a child....know deep in your heart who is around your child...pay attention. Take care of your love one. If you don't the sexual predator will....