tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post113756219347745491..comments2023-11-03T05:26:39.434-05:00Comments on Lessons Learned: Rosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13037132101026488589noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-39992417294117016652015-01-01T08:35:08.997-06:002015-01-01T08:35:08.997-06:00Teman saya pernah terkena kutil kelamin di sekitar...Teman <a href="http://bit.do/V8y6" rel="nofollow">saya</a> pernah <a href="http://bit.do/V8y8" rel="nofollow">terkena</a> <a href="http://bit.do/V8y9" rel="nofollow">kutil</a> <a href="http://bit.do/V8QD" rel="nofollow">kelamin</a> di sekitar <a href="http://bit.do/V8QF" rel="nofollow">bibir</a> vaginanya, <a href="http://bit.do/V8BB" rel="nofollow">sangat</a> mengerikan. di sekitar <a href="http://bit.do/V8BE" rel="nofollow">vagina</a> tersebut di <a href="http://bit.do/V8BG" rel="nofollow">tumbuhi</a> daging kaya <a href="http://bit.do/V8Sy" rel="nofollow">kutil</a> dan itu banyak sekali <a href="http://bit.do/V8St" rel="nofollow">pokoknya</a> menakutkan <a href="http://ow.ly/GgJqr" rel="nofollow">sekali.</a> Tapi <a href="http://ow.ly/GgJL3" rel="nofollow">setelah</a> minum <a href="http://ow.ly/GgKS9" rel="nofollow">obat</a> <a href="http://ow.ly/GgLt5" rel="nofollow">Penyakit</a> kutil <a href="http://ow.ly/GgM9H" rel="nofollow">kelamin</a> wanita dari herbal, dalam waktu 2 hari sudah kering. 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You have a very interesting blog. Thanks for sharing us.Van Cong Tuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12588216588419216202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1138210007283005752006-01-25T11:26:00.000-06:002006-01-25T11:26:00.000-06:00Forgiveness is a funny thing and it's not easy to ...Forgiveness is a funny thing and it's not easy to master. Like Envizable and Dr. Serani said, while we may forgive -- it's best we don't forget. When a horrible transgression has been done against us, I think the heart takes steps to make sure it can't be hurt and betrayed again -- so the relationship often changes. What we have to be mindful of is not saying we have forgiven someone and then secretly (or not so secretly) holding whatever they did against them by throwing it in their face whenever you get the chance. I've known couples that stay together after a cheating episode and while the wife may "forgive" and take the husband back, she throws the cheating in his face all the time. That's truly not forgiveness. So in our minds, we must each be clear on what forgiving means.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12204997166634933312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1138205264351726422006-01-25T10:07:00.000-06:002006-01-25T10:07:00.000-06:00i'm the same, i've been betrayed by my bestfriend ...i'm the same, i've been betrayed by my bestfriend who is also my childhood friend, but it was not about a guy. she knows almost everything about me and she used all that to go against me. i was so hurt that i couldn't stand anymore and i slapped her left cheek. it happened when we were 14. it was quite hard for me to forgive her but now i could. i forgive, but i dont forget. just like you, i'm just on guard. things aren't as smooth like last time, we're not close like before either. she's trying, i'm trying too. it's just a matter of time when both of you could make up and be like before.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1138180157689731522006-01-25T03:09:00.000-06:002006-01-25T03:09:00.000-06:00What a wonderful enlightening post! Yes I can for...What a wonderful enlightening post! Yes I can forgive, but like you, somehow it's hard to forget. I eventually forgave the woman who came between my husband and me. She called years later after she divorced him and apologized to me letting me know what she had done to me and said that it happened to her also. I forgave her and we have had a few talks. I am not a close friend of hers but I don't detest her anymore. However, there are other circumstances where I have been struggling with forgetting and maybe even forgiving. Grudges are not good for those who hold them.The Gighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05030203012345906535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1138176248302365682006-01-25T02:04:00.000-06:002006-01-25T02:04:00.000-06:00I am not a forgiving person.In a few cases I allow...I am not a forgiving person.<BR/><BR/>In a few cases I allowed friends back into my life that had violated my trust. We did establish close ties but it was never the same.<BR/><BR/>Currently there are 2 so called friends who have violated my trust that I rarely speak with anymore. Our relationships will forever be changed. It's too bad...I've known both for 14 years. I think I've forgive both but this isn't either's first falling out with me so I am resolved to keeping a healthy distance between us.Shawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01287848883253383848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1138068431375697582006-01-23T20:07:00.000-06:002006-01-23T20:07:00.000-06:00i'm so back :)i'm so back :)Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02305465691613770908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1138054292354203662006-01-23T16:11:00.000-06:002006-01-23T16:11:00.000-06:00I think I am too forgiving at times...it is my ble...I think I am too forgiving at times...it is my blessing and my curse. <BR/><BR/>This is very interesting to ponder:)Didi Robyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08294069148875589058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137947676806036972006-01-22T10:34:00.000-06:002006-01-22T10:34:00.000-06:00For me, forgiving is the way *I* move on. It's th...For me, forgiving is the way *I* move on. It's the way I keep this person from having that kind of power in my life. And I have also learned to forgive from a distance. Holding on to hurt and anger doesn't serve. Neither, however, does pretending the event never happened and everything's fine. My mother and sister handled my divorce in a way that was exceedingly painful to me. I have accepted that and forgiven it ~ and my relationship with the two of them will never be the same again. There are consequences to every action, every choice. Some actions and choices alter things forever, even with forgiveness.BostonPobblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08900134112278236654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137867586728945562006-01-21T12:19:00.000-06:002006-01-21T12:19:00.000-06:00I can, and I have.I can, and I have.Deb Sistrunk Nelsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072871724975222638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137813654119734652006-01-20T21:20:00.000-06:002006-01-20T21:20:00.000-06:00forgiveness is something that can be challenging t...forgiveness is something that can be challenging to learn ... it is a process of letting yourself vent and let it out all the emotions to let go - good post.Clayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16938240631738859935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137791840590378322006-01-20T15:17:00.000-06:002006-01-20T15:17:00.000-06:00I always used to think I was a forgiving person bu...I always used to think I was a forgiving person but a year or so ago two people who were close friends of mine treated another friend of ours in a terrible way and although they didn't indirectly treat me badly, I could never forgive them for what they did to her when all she had done was move to London to be closer to people she thought were her friends. Neither of them were sorry for the upset they caused her and that's why I could never forgive them and also why I am no longer friends with them either.Clarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05837460074355853791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137739647852043622006-01-20T00:47:00.000-06:002006-01-20T00:47:00.000-06:00Wow.. good story.I can understand the guardedness ...Wow.. good story.<BR/><BR/>I can understand the guardedness you refer to. I have that now for many people who were once close. Once they let it out, it's tough to forget. It's tough, but you have to look out for your own feelings. <BR/><BR/>Your friend was wrong for what she did, but that whole illusion that you stole her man would be understood, if it lasted...maybe for a weekend. Going as far as she did is crazy.<BR/><BR/>Take care. I always enjoy reading your posts.crallspacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00024551175379067957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137717207105785812006-01-19T18:33:00.000-06:002006-01-19T18:33:00.000-06:00I can forgive but I can never go back. Once the r...I can forgive but I can never go back. Once the relationship has lost its trust, I lose the desire to fix it. I'd much rather cut my loses and move on.Breahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15619137953123914414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137704306748449092006-01-19T14:58:00.000-06:002006-01-19T14:58:00.000-06:00Part of having a successful friendship / relations...Part of having a successful friendship / relationship is being able to forgive, and not hold grudges. If you did, it will be such a burden, everyone would be deprived of the joy forgiveness would bring.Jez Chillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16730798886296231186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137703272197123652006-01-19T14:41:00.000-06:002006-01-19T14:41:00.000-06:00I'm not sure if I could safely say that I am a for...I'm not sure if I could safely say that I am a forgiving person. I too, do not forget. Most of the time I forgive for my own sake, so I could maintain my peace. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes I tell myself that what happened does not deserve another minute of my peace so I let my "hate" go ... but no, I don't forget what happened. I forget the ill feelings but I don't forget what was done. Then I accept the sad reality that the offender is not the type of person that I would like to be close with anymore. The door is still open of course, but it takes lots of variables to rebuild and rekindle a relationship.<BR/><BR/>What happened to you and your 'friend' is so sad. I'd be happy to learn later that things are ok between you but I'm sure you know what's best at the moment.<BR/><BR/>Thanks and God bless.AsianSmileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06574684366358480498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137674048230652532006-01-19T06:34:00.000-06:002006-01-19T06:34:00.000-06:00I am forgiving. Very much so. But I always redefin...I am forgiving. Very much so. But I always redefine and readjust a relationship after a trauma. So forgetting doesn't happen. I think it helps to keep me safe. <BR/><BR/>Your story is so sad. When a man comes between friends or family, the results can be life changing.<BR/><BR/>~DebDr. Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06340730498047128203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137661741880479862006-01-19T03:09:00.000-06:002006-01-19T03:09:00.000-06:00i forgive but it is difficult to forget.i forgive but it is difficult to forget.Freshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12534829739358376414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137643439216535962006-01-18T22:03:00.000-06:002006-01-18T22:03:00.000-06:00Yes, I am a forgiving person. I forgive everyone a...Yes, I am a forgiving person. I forgive everyone at the end of each day. But in the process, I have hurt myself a lot.S A J Shirazihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00273513824756243968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137625165967949822006-01-18T16:59:00.000-06:002006-01-18T16:59:00.000-06:00forgiveness is so hard.but we must forgive.still f...forgiveness is so hard.<BR/>but we must forgive.<BR/><BR/>still forgiving doesn't mean being dumb..or laying down to be walked on over and over again.feels good b n FREEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05620955405907322116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137622449264916802006-01-18T16:14:00.000-06:002006-01-18T16:14:00.000-06:00i had my bestfriend talking shit behind my back. s...i had my bestfriend talking shit behind my back. so unlucky for her, i heard a big chunk of it. i didn't say anything 'til 1 day i confronted her, asking if she had any problem with me lately. she said no. when i told her everything i heard, she was so surprised. the look on her face was invaluable. we had a LONG talk. she apologized, but i refused to talk to her after that. for more than 2 years she kept trying to show me gestures how sorry she was 'n how she wanted to be my bestfriend again.<BR/><BR/>until 1 day, i don't remember why or what happened, i was thinking... people make mistakes, including me. when i really do cherish 1 person, and i make a mistake, i really want that person to forgive me and take me back as i am :) so 1 day, without notice, i met her at work and i gave her a hug. she cried and cried. i completely forgive her and take her back. she's my dearest friend. i've been thru a lot with her and i really value her friendship. not even once i regret taking her back 'cuz she never fails me 'til now. if she doesn't like even a bit of what i say/do, she'll say it in front of my face instead of behind my back. we've been friends for more than 12 years now :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137618445136444502006-01-18T15:07:00.000-06:002006-01-18T15:07:00.000-06:00Hi Rose, you and I are the same, overly kind. Peop...Hi Rose, you and I are the same, overly kind. People like us always seem to get hurt the most. Anyway, I can forgive some things but bigger things that have happened to me I will not ever be able to forgive the person because it deeply traumatized me and I just can't do it. Sometimes people hurt you so badly you can't forgive even if you want to. Maybe, if I could resolve it, I would try but I have lived with this painful thing for years and I finally was able to let go. Sometimes it is the person who hurts you that has to step up before you can even forgive them. But I don't think you can forgive everything. I don't mean little things of course. I mean big, hurtful, serious things that ruin lives. Rose you are older and wiser than me. Maybe when I get to your place in life and have lived through more experiences, I can forgive this person. But right now I can't. I'm not trying to hold onto the pain. I've let go but I just can't forgive this person. Just too much has happened. But maybe, years from now I can or at least I may be able to. This post hit me hard, very effective. Great job, Rose. Made me teary, but it also made me think. Hope you're enjoying, " Divas "!Stacy-Deannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00252217315669096281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137613562897717112006-01-18T13:46:00.000-06:002006-01-18T13:46:00.000-06:00I hear you envizable. Once you hurt me I won't all...I hear you envizable. Once you hurt me I won't allow you to do again.<BR/><BR/>Goddess: With family members it so hard not to make up. You have a history with them bonded by blood, so you have to love them in spite of what they've done. Yet, you are reluctant to go real deep with them again.<BR/><BR/>Brownsoul: that is the worse way to lose a friend, over a man. In most cases they forgive each other when something happens. But in this case she was at the door, she heard every word. Plus she knew that I was in love with my high school boyfriend who I was still dating.<BR/><BR/>I forgave her. But that was it. It was easy to forgive her because I knew that she was hurt. Imagine a person you have loved from a far. You and your bestfriend strategize on your getting him. Then he announces I want the other friend, that was painful.. But she knew me..I really loved her.<BR/><BR/>Chele: You are right if I mistreated the person. But I am not like that. I forgive. I don't forget. I speak to you and can hold an intelligent conversation but that is where I draw the line. I don't bad mouth you, I just don't want any kind of relationship with you. In this case, I never broke up with her parents or other relatives. Her mother was the only one that I trusted to keep my child from 6 mths -two years old in her daycare. So we remained cordial.Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13037132101026488589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137613289919567922006-01-18T13:41:00.000-06:002006-01-18T13:41:00.000-06:00Last February, I was spiritually healed when I cri...Last February, I was spiritually healed when I cried out forgiveness to everyone who did something to me. And send then, I've continue to forgive, but not always forget. <BR/><BR/>I can definitely be someone who can be close to someone whose hurt me. But, on the same hand it takes time for me to completely forgive and open back up!<BR/><BR/>Great PostUnconquerable Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11145490484116821400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14764916.post-1137612603125775182006-01-18T13:30:00.000-06:002006-01-18T13:30:00.000-06:00I can't forgive. I feel with I put my all into a f...I can't forgive. I feel with I put my all into a friendship and you betray my trust I am done. Loyalty i very important to me and If I feel like you stabbed me in the back I guarantee I will never mess with you again.<BR/><BR/>"Fool me once, shame on you.Fool me twice shame on ME"Msnhimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16372708762864147427noreply@blogger.com